We were out late last night, at a dinner party. (Well, let me define 'late'. For me it is anything past ten. We got home at midnight.) It was a lovely evening with delicious food and delightful company, but I knew this morning wasn't going to be joyful. In fact, I was thankful it was Saturday morning because generally I get to sleep in on Saturday and my husband gets the luxury on Sunday.
Way too early there was a little one by my side, waking me up, as her clock now said she could leave her room.
Ugh! I thought as she gently kissed my cheek.
"Happy Mother's Day!" she said softly.
Now here is the dilemma. She chose me this morning because it is Mothers' Day (at least in most of the Arab world) and therefore the day should be spent with me. In my mind, since it's Mothers' Day, I should get to sleep in!
We spent the next couple of hours snuggling and playing games. Once Daddy was up we began our regular Saturday routines - I plan menus for the week and make the shopping list and then they head out to collect what I have requested via the list. As they stopped by, dropping off water from the 'Water Shop' before heading to the produce stand and the 'Nut Shop' with a final visit to Mr. Joseph, the 'Cheese Guy', I was given the option of going out to brunch upon their return.
I need to insert that my husband thinks it is ridiculous and/or unfair that I get two Mother's Days and he gets only one. I am quick to point out that I did not request this 'extra' one in March and would be fine with the one in May. (This one is too close to my birthday and I like my 'special days' spread out.) This being said, the culture here is HUGE on Mothers' Day. She brought home a card she made for me in her class and presented me with a rose from her after-school care. The flower shops are spilling onto the streets in anticipation of all the flowers that will be presented today. Everyone talks about it. Really, this is the Mothers' Day that is more real to her than a day, many Sundays from now when my husband and I will wish our moms "Happy Mothers' Day' when we talk to them on Skype.
Hey, if you can't beat them, join them. I got up early, but at least I am about to go to brunch!
I could relate to your definition of late, and also to your perception that you should be able to sleep in. My daughter is 15, and I intend to enjoy the last few years of snuggling together on the couch watching a movie or reading a good book. All too soon she'll be off to college and then snuggling opportunities will be rare.
ReplyDeleteLovely that you get to celebrate Mother's Day twice. From the little kids perspective Mother's Day happens way more often - they bring flowers and cards and initiate mom-child activities.
ReplyDeleteI too love that you get two Mother's Days! I also love that your little one wants to snuggle and enjoy time with you. Hold tight to those moments. They are precious beyond words.
ReplyDeleteWonderful post by a loved mom :)
ReplyDeleteOoooh you get brunch out, instead of cold buttered toast and warm coffee in bed! That sound fun!
ReplyDeleteI loved hearing about the culture surrounding Mother's Day. I'm all for two, so enjoy celebrating whenever you get the chance. It's a beautiful thing!
ReplyDeleteReally powerful that your daughter got swept up in loving you extra today! How can one begrudge the loss of sleep, when she is there! Adorable.
ReplyDeleteHow wonderful that your daughter wanted to greet you on this special day. I remember when my daughter was young and would come in announcing "It's morning time!" with a hug and kiss. IT sounds like a perfect Mother's Day!
ReplyDeleteHow wonderful that your daughter wanted to greet you on this special day. I remember when my daughter was young and would come in announcing "It's morning time!" with a hug and kiss. IT sounds like a perfect Mother's Day!
ReplyDeleteAs I read your writing I hear clearly how much love and pride you have for your daughter. I especially liked the fact that your husband teases you that you get two days and he only one. These moments truly our the treasures hidden in our life. You captured it so well.
ReplyDeleteMothers' Day times two! That's a real treat. Like you, I like my special days spread out. Your little one sounds adorable. Hope you enjoyed the day with your family.
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